Last few days, I’ve been thinking about thinking. I was listening to James Altucher’s podcast interview with Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx. She is well known for her story of constantly using failure to learn lessons. Her father would ask at dinner table, “What did you fail in this week?” and if they didn’t have anything they failed at, he’d be actually disappointed. He helped her frame it that failure isn’t about the outcome. For them, failure is about not trying. She says if something doesn’t turn out or ends up embarrassing herself, it’s not a failure. Failure is not doing something out of fear. I related to it very much. She also said she goes out of her way to embarrass herself. If too much time go on without embarrassing herself, she feels “Oh, I gotta do something” —and she’d sing in an elevator when other people were there. etc. I liked the idea. Embarrassing yourself is a good exercise to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. (Yes, this is a huge keyword for me) – She also mentioned the importance of being vulnerable. Another reason I love her.
I was in Vancouver this week to see the Japan Unlayered, an exhibition on Japanese Art, Architecture and Culture happening at Fairmont Pacific Rim. The event features brands like MUJI, BEAMS JAPAN, Waketokuyama, ACURA and Sakurai Japanese Tea Experience as well as architecture by Kengo Kuma and designs from Rei Kawakubo (Comme des Garcons) and Yoji Yamamoto.
At the end of last year, I had picked 3 words for 2017. They are Faith, Create and Connect.
Now I’ve decided to change the last one to JOY.
I have been doing this “3 Words” thing for few years, (like my friend Chris), but this is the first time I’ve decided to change one of the words after I’ve picked them.
I’ve written about the Tea Leaf Reading I went last week.
How much do you know about tea leaf reading? I have done it once up in Nanaimo, but I barely remember what was said. The fortune teller told me a lot about my fortune, but the time she spent on the tea leaf reading was less than 2 minutes.
So I was pretty curious when I first heard about Silk Road in downtown Victoria was offering Tea Leaf Reading. The owner of Silk Road, Daniela is a lovely friend of mine and she was generous enough to offer me a session with Rachel, Silk Road’s resident Tea Leaf Reader. Read more